There is a belief in many circles that the soul is whole, it is the person, what they represent. Some people think it is the spirit, some people think that the soul and the spirit are different, but at the end of the day the soul is, in many respects, it’s what keeps the body together and carries you along.
So, based on that belief, if the soul is fractured, how can it carry the body along? How can it keep the person going, presenting who they are to cope with everyday life? And you can see in many, many people that there are fault lines, like the earth. Fault lines that you can see. Faults or flaws in every human being that stop them from communicating, stop them from living their life in the way that they want to or believe they can, or that other people can see that they should be living their life. Very often people do not know why they cannot do this or cannot do that, whilst others can.
And so, we come to this other belief, The Fractured Soul. Some also believe The Fractured Soul is depleted because when something occurs, some trauma, something tragic, or something joyous, or some event that you were able or not able to do, all of these things that involve you and your soul, and with that thing/event, that a part of the soul is left behind. For example, when lovers make love, in many cases it is considered a ‘mingling’ of the souls – two souls.
If you consider that, does that mean that if there is this mingling, that part of the individual’s soul goes with the other or do you just separate yourself wholly with your soul and just go, and there is nothing of the other?
For people who are very much in love and have much passion in your lovemaking, they would say ‘no’, that there is the mingling and then the cohabitation then, of the souls.
So, you can see from that, that yes, there are bits of the soul that leave, that are attached to somebody else. But then that means that you are less, that the soul is depleted.
But what is the soul?
To think of the soul as giving bits off, leaving bits behind and maybe taking other bits from other people, from other situations, so your own and then depleting someone else’s.
To say that, then what you are saying is the soul is physical, the soul has some limitations. That the soul has a beginning and an end, but the soul is not like that, just because it fits within your body it doesn’t mean it is the same size or shape, what-have-you as the body.
The soul, like the spirit, if you want to pick them as different or if you want to think of them as the same, is infinite.
There’s no beginning and there’s no end!
So, if you are making love and there is a mingling of the soul then some of their soul goes with that person and some of your soul goes with you.
Does it mean now that there is a hole and you are filling maybe with this other person’s soul, or it just may be a hole and they are filling something else? It does mean that sometimes. Yes, that is emotionally. If you look at it from an emotional level, then yes it may be filling a hole within you and maybe you are filling a hole, but we are not talking about that now, we are talking about this idea of The Fractured Soul.
It’s not possible for the soul, if you think of it as being ‘infinite’ to be depleted.
So, if you are making love, as we say, with somebody and the souls are mingling and yes, you might take some of the soul of the other, and they may take some of the soul of you, but it doesn’t mean that your soul is depleted, it doesn’t mean that your soul is fractured, because the soul is ‘infinite’, it’s there all the time, complete and incomplete. There’s nothing and there’s everything.
That’s what the soul is.
So, the soul, when you think of it like that, how can it be fractured?
Certainly, some situations in your life might occur that will cause part of you to be left there, some tragedy, some trauma or something joyous. But does that mean that your soul is now incomplete or fractured? No, it does not mean that.
What it means is that you have had an experience that has affected every part of your being. The soul as well and you have ‘left’ some of yourself there.
Yes, certainly let us say you have left some of your soul there, but it does not mean that you have left a hole within you that cannot be refilled or healed. It just means that some of you and your experience is now part of a different energy. Because everything that you do, everything that you are is energy.
So, every event that happens every experience is like a bubble of energy.
When people say that they can ‘see’ spirit – ghosts they call them – or they can talk to a spirit in a particular situation and that spirit might be dressed in a particular way. No! You cannot know that it is not possible to know that the spirit of your grandmother is always going to be dressed in that way! Right? It’s not possible because when the human being, the physical dies, the spirit becomes nothing again. Nothing and everything because the physical is not there – they do not wear clothes.
So, what does that mean? That means that the situation that you are drawing on, you are bringing up, the energy of that person is just like the energy of other people, it’s there and so they are presenting the energy of that particular time, that particular situation.
It doesn’t mean that that is no longer part of their experience. It’s their soul experience. It doesn’t mean that. They have just left part of their energy, not themselves necessarily, but the energy that was created by that event is there from that person.
Some may say that is a little bit of themselves a little bit of their soul, yes that is correct because it’s energy, the bubble of energy of that event, of that situation.
When they leave you and the physical body ends, they do not leave bits and pieces of themselves in many different existences, no they leave ‘ whole’, They leave ‘whole’.
So, we come back to this idea of The Fractured Soul.
Yes, it’s possible to have a fractured soul, but not now as we have discussed it in the way that many people believe that you have an event, a trauma and you leave part of your soul there. It is possible you are leaving energy there, but not your soul.
You are leaving the energy of the situation, and you are part of that, your soul and everything, and you are part of that energy, so this might be challenging for you to understand that it is not your soul that you are leaving there, but just the energy that was created by that event or experience.
So, let us talk about The Fractured Soul.
The Fractured Soul, if you imagine a mirror that has been cracked, or a window and there are lots and lots and lots of pieces. That’s the same as a Fractured Soul.
All of the pieces are there, but there are separations. Everybody has these separations, some people have a lot of separations, some people have very few but everybody has them and yes, they are created by the energy of the situations that have occurred causing joy as well as trauma!
That’s how these separations have occurred and now why there are fragments, but it does not mean that the soul is not whole. The soul is still complete in its own way, but the fact that there are still fragments and there are these separations. It’s like if you look into a mirror.
If those souls were not whole, if they had been somewhere else and left, it means that that situation, whatever it was, could never be healed. It could never be healed because it is not there anymore. There’s a hole, but the fact that every situation, every trauma, every joy, everything, if it needs to be healed, it can be healed.
It proves plainly that the fragment has not gone, it’s not been left somewhere, it is just separated and you need to re-attach. You need to look where that line of separation is and you need to glue it together but glue it together in a way that it is not just two pieces just ‘stuck’ together, because that is what a lot of healing is nowadays. A lot of healing is just two pieces stuck together. But if two pieces are just stuck together, there is the possibility it can happen again.
What you need to do is to ‘merge’, you need to ‘melt’, not ‘weld’ because welding can also come apart, but what you need is to melt, just like the two people are making love and the souls they mingle and when they come apart maybe there is part of one soul with the other and vice-versa, it’s the same with your soul.
That’s how healing occurs. Find that point of healing. Find the real point of separation and meld it back together so that the soul can be completely connected.
You see we did not say ‘complete’ because already the soul is complete. Every individual has a complete soul, it’s just that sometimes there are separations. There are shattering’s and that means it’s still there. It’s just like the mirror, it has the cracks and to become ‘whole’ – completely whole – but not complete because it’s already complete, sometimes if you really want to deal with something that is affecting your life you have to meld them together, not glue them together.
Now some people, not every break or every fragmentation affects their life. It doesn’t, but there are some aspects of the fragmentation that they will find is affecting the way that they are living their life, and that’s what they want to fix.
We are saying this to you because yes, you probably have a fragmented soul, but if your life is happy, if you are content, it doesn’t mean that you have to look for these fragments and try and meld them because this means that those fragments that are there are not affecting your life negatively. Right? They’re not.
Your soul is whole. Your soul is whole, is complete. That’s a fact, but some people these fragmentations do affect the way they are walking forward, it does affect the life they want to live and as we said, you have to find the ‘point of healing’. It’s no good just to glue them together.
What does that mean? Let’s say in practical terms let’s say you have an allergy, so you change your food habit – all you’ve done is glue it together! That’s it.
Let us say you have some emotional problem, so you go to see some psychologist, some councillor or something like that and they will work with you at certain levels, and yes it might have some great effect for you, but let us say that it is back to this intolerance for food, but you don’t change your diet, so you are doing one part of your journey but not the other part.
Some say, well if I heal this part, I don’t have to change my diet! Yes, but you have to give the body a break. You have to let the body become in tune, so you have to change your diet and maybe later on you go back to eating whatever you want when you are healed in all areas. But even if they are dealing with all the emotions and the mental and you are not actively working on the physical, then it’s just glue. Just glue and eventually it will come apart. It is not melding. It’s just glue.
That’s what we mean by ‘meld’ – all aspects of yourself has to be worked on, not just one. Don’t just pop the band-aid on it. It doesn’t matter how strong the glue is, the possibility is there for it to come apart and you must work on all areas. All areas.